To make the right choices in life, you have to get in touch with your soul. To do this you need to experience solitude which most people are afraid of, because in the silence you hear the truth and know the solutions.
The idea is to go inside to the still place. You might need to travel through the chatty places though. Because they are the places that are testing you to see if you have the patience to really listen to the song of the place where your deepest truths reside